10 Things Tuesday on Friday

Ok.  So it's not Tuesday.  But sometimes a girl just has to stop and give thanks.  Otherwise, the events of a very trying week could consume her thoughts with negativity.  Why allow that when there are so many positive, good things to dwell on? 

1. Little man is feeling much better and so am I.  We spent lots of time cuddling this week.  Not that I would ever ask for one of my kids to be sick, but it really does bring out the "nurturer" in me.  Even when I'm not feeling well myself.

2. Fall has finally decided to show itself.  Last year I didn't get to savor my favorite season because it seems like we went from Summer to Winter overnight.  I really do love the many colors of the leaves and the warm days and crisp nights.  Not to mention the tastes of Fall like apple cider, and pumpkin spice muffins and lattes!

3. Although I am definitely not a morning person, I really have enjoyed watching the sun rise over the beautiful hills that surround us here.  We have a big picture window in our dining space that nicely frames them.  This morning was a particularly glorious sun rise with oranges and pinks and purples reflecting off of a few scattered fluffy clouds.  If only I could paint!  I would capture the image forever on canvas.

4. I've had some great dinner conversation with my kids this week at the dinner table.  I know that the days will quickly come when there will be kids missing from the dinner table due to activities and sports.  I want to cherish the moments that we spend together eating dinner as a family.  My favorite night was when we went around the table and showed our appreciation for each kid by highlighting something special about them and then giving them a round of applause.

5. We finally got half of our firewood delivered yesterday.  My garage is filled with the fresh scent of Oak.  I'm so thankful that we have two fireplaces to help heat this big home this winter.  When it does get cold here it gets really cold.  If I remember correctly from the last time we lived here, it can even get to sub zero temps.  That's without a wind chill factor.  I will say that I'm glad that those days the sun is usually shining bright.  It may not warm us, but I can face the cold days a lot better when the sun is shining.

6.  Here's a sad one from last weekend, but it's worthy of sharing.  I went to my dear friend's dad's funeral last weekend.  She was my babysitter growing up so I knew her dad pretty well.  I was so thankful that my husband watched the kids for me for the weekend so I could go and support her. 

7. While I was driving across the state to get there I had a lot of good worship and prayer time with God.  I really enjoyed the uninterrupted time (6 1/2 hours one way) in the car.  It felt like catching up with an old friend.

8. The funeral was in my home town so I got to stay at my mom's house.  While I was there I visited with my Grandma, who lives just down the hill.  I loved waking up in the morning to hug my mom and have a cup of coffee with her.  My sister joined us on Saturday and she and I went to see a movie together Saturday night.  That's something we haven't done in years!  It was wonderful to visit with my family, even though it was only for a couple of days.

9. While I was away, my neighbor had her baby!  I am waiting to go take a peek because I know how difficult the first week home can be.  I will eventually put together a meal for them and a basket of goodies for their other two children, but for now, they have family taking good care of them.  I am so thankful that God put us next door to them.  We've already become good friends.

10. We're going to try out our Pastor Friend's church again this weekend.  We've checked out a few other churches in the area and none have really been for us.  LIFE Church is very lively and they are seeing lots of people come to Jesus every week.  They have a really good kids' program and great worship.  I love to listen to the Pastor preach because he has a lot of passion for God's Word and how it applies to our lives today.  I hope that we can finally get plugged into a church that is right for our family.

Well, that's 10!  I sure do have a lot to be thankful about!  It's like I always tell my kids: When you're having a bad day (week), just be thankful!  Find something positive to think about and that will make it easier to walk through any trial that comes your way.

To quote the wise prophetess of the book of Judges, Deborah, during a difficult time of her life, "March on, my soul, be strong!"  (Judges 5:21b)

Have a great weekend all!
~Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

Hey everyone! It's cold out there, but that's not going to stop me from being thankful! It's the end of another month. Only one more to go in 2010! Where does the time go? Let's see...

In January I was thankful that God knows the big picture, even when we think a few pieces of the puzzle might be missing. You can read about it here.

In February I was thankful that God's Word is so encouraging and I have the freedom to pick it up and read it anytime I want. You can read that post here.

In March I was thankful that I can trust God no matter what my circumstances. Even when a beloved family member is ill. Read about that trust here.

In April I didn't blog much, but I did discuss how thankful I am that life is made up of both mountains and valleys. You can read about it in this post.

In May (and always) I was so thankful that I am a happy mother of five beautiful children. Take a look for yourself here.

In June I was thankful to meet with God in a sweet time of worshipping Him. Not only that, but to realize that He can be found in the ordinary moments of my day. You can read about that experience here.

In July I was incredibly thankful and blessed to be spending time with the kiddos at their Grandma's house. See photos here.

In August we took another trip where I was thankful to see extended family on the Oregon Coast. That post is located here.

In September my dad passed away. Even though I was sad to say goodbye, I was thankful that I got to spend the last week of his life with him. And I'm thankful I will see him in heaven again one day. You can see a photo of my dad with me and LR when she was a baby here.

In October I brought back 10 Things Tuesday. I felt a longing inside of me to express my thankfulness for all the blessings God has given me in this life. My first new list was created with my youngest son, and you can read it here.

I know that technically, I'm done with my list for this week. But since this is the end of November, I'm going to add a little bonus for this week.

I am thankful for the blessing of family and friends. We had a wonderful Thanksgiving here at home with snow all weekend long. (Lots of it!) Looking back, I am thankful that God was watching over me and my family through the ups and downs of this month. Feel free to read more about what I was thankful for in November here, here, and here.

Have a great upcoming month everyone! And don't forget to be thankful in all things!

"Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." -1 Thessalonians 5:18

~Melissa

10 Things Tuesday - Relationship Addition

We're approaching Thanksgiving and I am excited to host it here at my house this year. It looks like we're just having two extras - my sister in-law and her husband, but we've left an open invitation for friends in case they can't leave town due to bad weather.

Yes, we have snow! Lots of it. In fact, over the past 24 hours we've been on blizzard warning. High winds plus lots of snow = very poor visibility. My back porch (which is covered) was covered in snow this morning. Crazy. The school district did not declare a snow day, so I just declared one on my own. I am not going to risk driving in those conditions!

Well, now that I've given the weather report, lets get on with the thanks-giving! This is my special tribute to all the people in my life that I am thankful for.

1. My husband - He is my best friend, an incredible dad, a comedian, a Pastor, a gifted musician, and more! I love him so much and if you want to read more about why, just go to this post.
2. Anyone who knows me knows I just adore each of my children! They all have such unique personalities. I am so blessed to be the mother of five wonderful children who make me laugh, challenge me to be a better mom, and keep me on my toes (and my knees) all the time! Just because today is his 4th birthday, I'd like to give special thanks for my youngest, CD. He's so fun and I'm glad I have this year and next with him still at home. :)
   
3. My mom - She is always there for me, even when things aren't going the best for her. She's such a good listener and I still go to her when I need sound advice. The older I get, the deeper our friendship grows. I appreciate all that she sacrificed for me growing up even in the most difficult of times.
4. I couldn't imagine not mentioning my dad, even though he passed away this last September. I have so many great memories with him growing up, and into my adult years. I spent the last week of his life with him and it was some of the sweetest time ever. He will be greatly missed this Thanksgiving.
5. My sister - Even though we are 3 years apart, we are the best of friends. I know I can always count on her through thick and thin. We are mountains apart now, but there is nothing we wouldn't do for each other. I love you sis!
   
6. My in-laws - I could not have been blessed with better in-laws. My Mother-in-law is the reason I wanted to have a big family. The first time I saw all of the siblings interacting I knew I wanted lots of kids. Everyone accepted me as one of the family right off the bat. Family get-togethers are always an adventure!
7. My friends the Phifers - They are such a big part of our lives. I am so blessed to have such committed friends. They were there for us when 4 out of 5 of our children were born. I love their two children and couldn't imagine life without them around! My friend Andrea is the first person I call if ever I need, oh, anything! She is so faithful to me and I love her dearly.
   
8. My friend Michelle - She is so loving and generous. Very sensitive to the needs of those around her. When I have need for prayer, I know she's going to answer the call. I love her family too. Every time I hang out with them I laugh. They are such fun people!
9. The teachers that my children have had since they reached school age - We have been so blessed with good teachers! I love how they have partnered with us to make sure our children get the education that they deserve.
   
10. Our church family - I am so thankful that we are in a church of people who genuinely care about us. The staff is wonderful and my husband really loves working there. The friendliness that I feel every time I walk through the doors on Sunday carries through the week. I know that if ever we have a need, our church family would step up to meet it.
    

These are just some of the current relationships that bless my life. I am so thankful for all my friends and family, near and far. And let's not forget my blogger friends! There are so many moms out there that I don't hesitate to ask for advice when I'm struggling. Thanks for being there when I need you most! :)

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

May you find yourselves as blessed as I am by the friends and family in your lives.
~Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

I missed posting last week. Of course, that doesn't mean I didn't have anything to be thankful for! I have tons of things going on in my life that make me thankful.

Like the accident that I was involved in two weeks ago. I feel like I can share a little about it now since the claim is finally closed.

I am so thankful that no one was injured. My youngest son was in the van with me. Both of us were unharmed by the impact. The other party involved was an elderly lady. I was relieved to hear that she too, was ok.

I'm thankful that my husband had just arrived home when I called him and was able to go pick up the kids from school. He also picked us up when the tow truck came to get the van.

I'm thankful that when we got home he immediately sprang into action and called our insurance to take care of the details and all I had to do is answer a few questions about the accident.

I'm thankful that the other party's insurance got us into a rental van the next day and has covered the full cost of the rental.

I'm thankful that even though our van was declared totaled, the other party has great insurance that took good care of us. Everything went as smoothly as I could possibly ask for.

Friday that same week, I was cleaning a knife at the sink and cut my thumb. It was bleeding bad enough that I knew I was going to need stitches. My husband wasn't home, so I grabbed the kids and walked over to my neighbors' house.

I'm so thankful my neighbors were home!

I'm thankful that they were willing to watch my kids while one of them drove me to Urgent Care to get stitches.

I'm thankful that we have health insurance.

I'm thankful that it wasn't worse. I only needed two stitches.

It wasn't the best of weeks for me. However, I am so thankful that God watches over me through the good and the bad. It gave me plenty of opportunities to talk to my kids about God's protection and faithfulness.

"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." -Psalm 46:1

10 Things Tuesday

How will I ever pick just 10 things today??? I have so much to be thankful for that my heart is just overflowing this morning! What's the saying? "My cup runneth over!" I guess that's appropriate, since this is the month we celebrate "Thanksgiving" here in the U.S.

1. I had an incredible time at the Beth Moore Conference with my friends over the weekend. The memory passage was Ephesians 4:4-6

   "There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all."

2. My sister in-law had surgery on Friday but is doing fine. She had some ovarian cysts removed. They also found endometriosis all over so they removed her appendix and she will take some medicine to get rid of the rest. Hopefully this will clear up a lot of the health problems she's been experiencing.
3. My brother in-law drove over the mountains to help with the care of my SIL, so I got to spend some time with him. I hadn't seen him since last Christmas.
4. The Fall Carnival at our church on Sunday was a HUGE success! The church was packed with both congregation members and neighborhood families. It was a fun, safe alternative to trick-or-treating.
5. My children used their own money to buy books at the book fair yesterday. Of all the things they could spend their saved money on, they chose books. I'm so thankful that they have a love for reading at such an early age.
   
6. After a couple of rainy days, it is a beautiful Fall morning. Blue skies, and a slight breeze. Perfect. The leaves at my children's school are still hanging on in shades of green, yellow and red and the sun was shining through them this morning to create a gorgeous scene.
7. Speaking of gorgeous scenes, check out the view from my window at the motel we stayed in on Friday night! One of the things Beth Moore commented on about Spokane, is the beautiful Fall colors we have here. :)
8. It's a new month and I am ready to take it on! Yesterday was a very productive day. I want to keep this positive attitude going. I feel a renewed energy and sense of purpose as a wife, mother, and homemaker.
   
9. RH is VIP in her class this week. I am so thankful that she was born over nine years ago. She is such a gem. I love her so much!
10. We have a month full of birthdays ahead of us. First, LH will be turning 6. Then I turn...well...I'm not embarrassed to say I'll be 37! And finally, CD is going to be 4. Plus my Grandma is turning 97, and my Niece will be 12. That's a lot to celebrate!

My cup really does runneth over. I am so blessed.

I know this is getting long, but stick with me just a bit longer to read the words of this incredible poem...

DRINKING FROM MY SAUCER

I've never made a fortune
and it's probably too late now.
But I don't worry about that much,
I'm happy anyhow.

And as I go along life's way,
I'm reaping better than I sowed.
I'm drinking from my saucer,
'Cause my cup has overflowed.

I haven't got a lot of riches,
and sometimes the going's tough.
But I've got loved ones around me,
and that makes me rich enough.

I thank God for his blessings,
and the mercies He's bestowed.
I'm drinking from my saucer,
'cause my cup has overflowed.

I remember times when things went wrong,
My faith wore somewhat thin.
But all at once the dark clouds broke,
and the sun peeped through again.

So God, help me not to gripe about
the tough rows that I've hoed.
I'm drinking from my saucer,
'Cause my cup has overflowed.

If God gives me strength and courage,
when the way grows steep and rough.
I'll not ask for other blessings,
I'm already blessed enough.

And may I never be too busy,
to help others bear their loads.
Then I'll keep drinking from my saucer,
'Cause my cup has overflowed.

Author unknown


May you feel your cup overflowing this week!
~Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

It's Tuesday again! I don't think I've ever really explained why I enjoy 10 Things Tuesday so much. It allows me to pause at the beginning of my week, (after the craziness of Monday) and think of the many blessings in my life.

A book I once read suggested taking time at the end of each day to reflect and make a 'gratitude' list. Just three things that you had to be thankful for that day. I still do that sometimes. But here on my blog, I like to record the things that I'm thankful for because then I can go back on hard days and read through the lists and remember that there is always reason to give thanks.

Here's this week's list:

1. I'm thankful that I have Girls' over-night out to look forward to at the end of this week! It's finally here! We're going to see Beth Moore and stay overnight at a motel downtown. :) So fun!
2. I'm SO thankful for my husband, who is willing to watch the kids overnight so I can go be with the girls and get refreshed.
   
3. I am thankful that I have the right to vote. Though I don't appreciate all the commercials, junk mail, and phone calls, I do appreciate that I have a right to my opinion and have the freedom to express that opinion on my ballot.
4. I'm thankful for Ibuprofen. Even though I woke up with a headache this morning, the pain is now manageable.
5. I'm thankful that I have a vehicle to take my children to school every day and pick them up in the afternoons.
6. I'm thankful that I still have one of my kids at home to keep me company during the day. :)
7. I'm thankful for friends that take time out of their busy schedule to come over and visit.
8. I am thankful that I've got a menu plan this week and I don't have to worry about what's for dinner every night. Did I mention that I LOVE my crock pot? It's doing most of the work for me this week!
9. I'm thankful for all the produce that I got from Bountiful Baskets this week. What a great program!
   
10. I am thankful that the snow has decided to stay in the mountains for the time being...brrrrr!

Have a blessed week everyone!
~Melissa

Psalm 105:1-3

¹ Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name;
make known among the nations what he has done.

² Sing to him, sing praise to him;
tell of all his wonderful acts.

³ Glory in his holy name;
let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice.

10 Things Tuesday

I am so thankful that:

1. The sun is shining through my living room window and though there is a chill in the air outside, I am warm and cozy inside on this beautiful Fall morning.
2. As I sat reading my Bible and devotion this morning, my son sat by my side reading along.
   
3. The kids were all ready to go out the door on time this morning. We even had enough time to go back in the house for a forgotten backpack.
4. Today is a planned "at home" day. No errands to run. Just time at home, straightening, cleaning, and purging.
5. CD, my youngest child, follows me around all day asking what he can do to help!
   
6. The construction on my road is almost complete! Tomorrow they start paving.
7. Yesterday I saved a bundle on groceries using coupons combined with great sales and was able to re-stock my pantry.
8. We have enough room in our budget for unexpected expenses, like new glasses for my husband.
   
9. My wonderful husband cooked dinner last night so I could finish up folding and putting away the laundry.
   
10. After dinner we had family movie night and there was lots of snuggling involved. :)

"This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." -Psalm 118:24

Rejoice with me friends! What are you thankful for today?

10 Things Tuesday

There was a time when I posted ten things that I'm thankful for every Tuesday. I stopped because the person that was sponsoring "10 Things Tuesday" stopped posting. (If you're reading this friend, then I hope you don't mind my picking up the label again.) Did I stop being thankful? Absolutely not. In fact, I'm going through a season where it is even more necessary for me to remember to give thanks, lest I be consumed by my sorrows.

There's a song that I've been listening to with my 3yr old that reminded me how important thankfulness is. "I'm thankful, thankful, thankful for everything, yes I'm thankful, thankful, 'cause God gives us all good things." Today I'm bringing back "10 Things Tuesday" with a special twist...I'm making the list with my son.

1. We're thankful for silly songs that make us laugh.
2. We're thankful that the sun is out today.
3. We're thankful for banana bread.
4. We're thankful for friends.
5. We're thankful for outings and adventures. (Specifically, going to the grocery store with mommy...and I'm thankful for the shopping buddy!)
   
6. We're thankful that Jesus goes with us everywhere.
   
7. We're thankful for penguins.
8. We're thankful for daddy.
9. We're thankful for toys.
10. We're thankful for coloring.

What a fun list to make with my son! I love his attitude of thankfulness. He hardly ever thinks about the next thing that he wants, but enjoys what he already has. A lesson that I can certainly take away from this activity.

Have a great day everyone! And don't forget to stop and be thankful today. :)

Thankfulness in Busy Times

Hi all! It's the first Tuesday of a brand new month! I've been kind of scarce lately because we've been really busy around here. Seems like there's something going on every weekend now, and the calendar looks just as full in June. Today I want to take time to stop and give thanks in the midst of it all and share a little about what's been happening here.

May 23-24th was our quick trip to Seattle with our three older kids. We got to hang out with a friend we haven't seen in years. I am so thankful that we got to reconnect, meet his wife and daughter, and just spend time with their family. They were so gracious to open their home to us and provide us with free tickets to the game on Sunday.

The game! It was so fun! What a great first baseball game experience for our kids. We walked around the stadium and enjoyed the sights. We even got Branden Morrow's autograph. When the game started, Ken Griffey Jr. hit a home run in the first inning! All in all, it was a great game, and the Mariners won. :)

Although I had a nice trip, I was glad to be home to my youngest two again on Sunday. I am so thankful for all five of my children! I couldn't imagine life without any of them. We spent Monday (Memorial Day Holiday) just hanging out as a family. I love days like that. We worked in the yard and played a little too. Good family bonding time.

Last week I worked some more on Spring cleaning. I spent time in the kitchen on my cupboards and continued to sort, organize and purge. Sometimes I wish I had more kitchen space, but I am thankful for what room I do have. It is my space and what I make of it is up to me. Sometimes all we need is a little imagination to make a space our own. :)

Friday rolled around and it was finally time for my girlfriend's retreat to Women of Faith! I had been looking forward to it for months! My friends picked me up at 8:30am and we headed down to the Arena. What an awesome first day! The speakers, the worship, the company...I am so thankful for all of it!

Another friend was able to join us for dinner and we had a BLAST! We had dinner in style. I am so thankful to my friend Michelle, who made this all possible for me. I only paid for my ticket and t-shirt. She blessed me with a whole lot more!


The evening session ended with a Steven Curtis Chapman concert! I love his music. He's one of the first Christian singers that I started listening to back in my teens. It was a treat to see him in person and I am thankful he was part of the conference.

The fun continued at our motel that night. Andrea met up with us again and the five of us played games and just hung out. It was the silliest time ever! We laughed until we cried. I am so thankful for friends that I can just let go with!

Here's the kicker...in the middle of the night sometime I got sick. I didn't stop throwing up until well after dawn. You know what though? Even though I missed the second day of the conference, I am so thankful for the time I got to spend with friends and I am glad they were there to pray for me and watch over me when I needed them. Andrea brought me home where I spent most of the day sleeping and recovering from what must have been a touch of the flu. Thanks for looking out for me girls!

I could not go without saying how thankful I am for my loving husband. He is, in my mind, the greatest for letting me have a special weekend while he watched the kids. Even when I came home sick early on Saturday morning, he took care of the kids all day so that I could rest. He made sure that I had peace and quiet, which is not easy in a house full of kids! I love him so much!

Well, that's my list for this week! I have so much to be thankful for and I am glad to share it with you. Have a great week!

10 Things Tuesday in 7 Minutes!

I have about 7 minutes before the timer for dinner goes off, so let's see how thankful I can be in 7 minutes! :)

1. The new swing set is up! The kids are loving it and having lots of fun.
2. I am thankful for all the projects that are getting done around our house and yard.
   
3. I got to spend quality time with my sister in law today on her day off. What a blessing!
   
4. I am finally caught up on laundry again! (Until tomorrow!)
5. I have a delicious dinner in the oven and it smells great!
6. I get to go to a Mariner's game this Sunday with my oldest three kids!
7. I was so honored and thankful to be interviewed for Rachel Anne's first Company Girls newsletter. How fun!
8. I love this beautiful weather we are having...even if I am sporting the "windblown" look!
   
9. I love the way that God speaks to me through His Word!
   
10. I am thankful for a husband who encourages me grow in the gifts that God has given me.

That's all I have time for! Now I'm off to eat Sausage Rice Casserole with my family. :)
-Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

Today I woke up late, after a night of tossing and turning. Apparently my son BC didn't sleep much better than me because when I went in to wake him up for school, he informed me that he was up at 3:30am throwing up. I sighed, kissed him on the forehead and said "I'll go call in your absence to the school." Even with a tough start to my day, there's always something to be thankful for. Here are my 10 things for the day.

1. Even though my son is home sick today, he seems to be feeling better. Tired, but better.
2. Bible study is coming to a conclusion today. Although I am sad about that, I am thankful for all that I have learned during this session. We are having a "feast" together this evening to conclude our time together.
3. I'm so thankful for a fun Mother's Day weekend. There was homemade cards, homemade icecream, lots of laughter and plenty of love!
4. I'm thankful for our back yard project. It's only in the beginning stages now so it looks like a mess. It will be a huge improvement when it's done though. In the mean time, the kids are having a blast helping with the work!
5. I am thankful for the people in our lives that are willing to help us with the above project. It makes our job a lot easier and affordable.
6. I'm thankful for the scent that the lilac bushes are giving off in the breeze. Such a sweet fragrance!
   
7. I am thankful that the client I mentioned last week put an offer on a house and it was accepted! Praise God for the extra income!
8. I give thanks every time I think about God's grace for me. His grace is sufficient for me, His power is made perfect in my weakness. 2 Cor. 12:9
   
9. The virtue of the month for Kid's Inc. is Obedience. I'm thankful for the opportunity not just to teach my kids about the importance of obedience, but to practice this virtue myself. I've already learned that just as obeying God comes with trust, my kids will obey me as they learn to trust me. What a valuable lesson!
10. I am thankful for the mystery revealed, which is Christ in me, the hope of glory! Col. 1:27

Stop by and see what others are thankful for at 10 Things Tuesday, and link up your own list.
Have a great day!
-Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

10 Things that I am thankful for today...

1. Coupons that mean more than 50% off of what I am buying!
2. A fun new game for my kids to play.
3. New grass that's finally growing in the back yard.
4. The sound of the wind blowing through the trees.
5. Tiny fingerprints on french doors.
6. A new client for my DH.
7. A funny joke that my son told me.
8. A new snow globe for an early Mother's Day present. :)
9. A beautiful sunset.
10. Bedtime stories and prayers.
    

Well, I'm off to tuck my kiddos in!
Don't forget to count your blessings and be thankful every day!
-Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

It's Tuesday! Time for another 10 thankful list. :) This week I actually get to link up with the hostess of 10 Things Tuesday, XBOX WIFE. She's been having internet issues so when I saw her post today I was ever so happy! Without further delay, here's my list...

1. It's been very nice here! Spring has finally arrived. We're supposed to get rain at the end of this week, but for now, I'm just thankful for the sunshine.
2. I had a wonderful weekend with my mom, sister, and niece. We went to the park to watch my DH play softball, and let the kids play on the playground. It was a perfect day for a picnic! (Even if I did forget to bring my DH some lunch!)
3. I am keeping on track with my food budget this month. A little planning can go a very long way!
4. Yesterday I picked up a pair of prescription sunglasses that I thought had been lost forever. I ordered them 2 years ago (our insurance covered them after I had CD) and they said the order had been lost and they could submit the order again but I'd have to pay for them. Then I got a mystery call a little while ago saying I could come pick up my sunglasses that were paid for. Go figure! I sure am glad they found them...even if it took two years! :)
5. I'm thankful that even though I haven't really had a lot of quiet time with Jesus lately, I can still feel Him by my side encouraging me.
6. I'm tired today but I'm not grumpy. Actually, I'm in a rather cheerful mood. I'm thankful for the joy that God has put in my heart that goes beyond the amount of sleep I get at night!
7. I am thankful that my laundry room light is finally fixed! The light on either end of the laundry room was working, but the one right over my washer dryer was not. Now I can treat stains without having to move to the other end of the room!
8. I'm thankful for time that even though my house isn't perfect and I don't have the most glamorous furniture (like this couch), I am blessed with a home large enough for our needs and we don't have to sit or sleep on the floor!
9. I'm thankful for large, open windows that let the sunshine in when I can't be outside because I have work to do inside.
10. I am thankful that although there is work to be done this morning, I will be able to play with my kids in the sun this afternoon!

Now, I'm off to chip away at the day's chores. Blessings to all of you! May your day be full of sunshine, even if the clouds bring on the rain! :)

-Melissa

10 Things Tuesday

Here's a quick, 10 Things Tuesday post! I've got to make dinner, but there's always time to give thanks!

1. Even though we woke up to 4 inches of snow this morning, the sun decided to come out and melt it all away. :)


2. It's Mariner's opening day at Safeco today! Ken Griffy Jr. is BACK! :)


3. My sister, mom, and niece are coming to visit on Friday! :)


4. I am finally caught up on laundry for a change! :)


5. I spent $88 on groceries today...I saved $86. Yep! That's almost 50% off one grocery trip! Coupons and promotions rock!


6. We had such a fun Easter. The kids looked so cute in their outfits and we hunted eggs, played games, and spent time with friends and family.


7. CD peed on the potty today! It won't be long before we're a diaper-free household! :)


8. My DH is picking up a surprise visitor at the airport tonight! The kids will be so excited!


9. Our second vehicle is working again. It didn't cost us as much as we thought because our friend figured out what was wrong, went to the junkyard to get the parts, and did all the labor for free. Thanks Tim!


10. Everyone seems to be feeling better and I finally got a full night's sleep last night. :)

Well, I'm off to make dinner! Have a wonderful week!

10 Things Tuesday

It's been a busy morning for me. The kids were late to school this morning because I had to take it very slow on the way to school. The roads were one solid sheet of ice. Thankfully, even though the temperature is still not above freezing, the sun has melted away most of that ice. We are supposed to reach record lows for March this week in temperatures though, so I'm sure we'll be back to solid ice tomorrow morning.


The beauty of it all (as long as I am indoors) is that everything is so bright with the sun shining on a fresh coat of snow. I have opened my curtains to let the sunlight flood in and that has brought a lot of cheer to my day. I thought I would take a few minutes to participate in 10 Things Tuesday, even though I haven't seen XBOX Wife around in a while.

1. I am thankful for Christian radio. I love to have positive music playing in the background as I work. I often find myself humming along, or outright worshipping in my kitchen.


2. I am thankful that my Pediatrician's office is willing to call in a prescription for pink eye so I didn't have to take LR to the doctor today. It saved me a trip out in the icy cold.


3. I am thankful for my new Bible study "Esther: It's Tough Being a Woman," by Beth Moore. It has come along at a perfect season of my life and I am already getting a lot out of it in the first week.


4. I am thankful that my kids are so excited to go to church every week. I pray that excitement will continue as they get older.


5. Baskets! Yes, all kinds of baskets. I use them all over my house to serve various and sundry purposes. Laundry, books, toys, you name it, I have a basket for it!


6. I am thankful my mother in law is coming to visit this weekend. I love it when she comes and so do our kids. I wish she could come more often and stay longer. I have said it before but I am so thankful that we have such a great relationship.


7. I am thankful for friends that have already gone through the stages of parenting that I am walking through currently.


8. I am thankful for God's mercy and grace.


9. I am thankful for life's little interruptions. (They happen on a daily basis around here!)


10. I am thankful that when my day seems to have slipped away, (like today) there is always tomorrow. :)

This week I am trying to spend less time on the computer so I will make my list brief.

1. Rain. Bye, bye snow! Spring is just around the corner!


2. Coupons. I saved BIGTIME this week on groceries.


3. Sweaters. I'm wrapped up in one that's warm and cozy right now.


4. Our dog Max. He is both playful and cuddly.


5. Ken Griffy Jr. is a Mariner again. Yep. I'm thankful for this because it makes my DH happy!


6. Dimples! They're just so cute!


7. Chocolate...I can't get enough of the stuff!


8. My Company Girl tote bag. It came in the mail yesterday.


9. Nap time. It's when my house is quiet.


10. Hot tea. I've been drinking a lot of it since I got this cold.

My One Year Post

I just realized that a year and two days ago was when I started this blog! A lot happens in a year, and looking back, I am so thankful for how we have grown as a family and where God has brought us on our journey together. With that in mind, I thought I would make my 10 Things Tuesday post about things that I'm thankful for over the past year.

1. I'm thankful that God has really provided for us financially over the past year. Around this time last year we were sitting in a bankruptcy court because our business had to shut down, and the owners of the building we were leasing decided to sue for the remainder of our five year lease. We had no other options but to file bankruptcy. God is so faithful though, and He provided the means for us to survive through my husband's Realty license.
2. I'm thankful that we didn't lose our home in the bankruptcy. We have a roof over our heads and that's more than I can say for many Americans in this unstable economy.
3. I'm thankful for the time that we have been able to spend together as a family over the last year. I know that at times it felt crazy but as a Realtor my husband set his own hours so we were often able to enjoy the pleasure of his company here at home.
4. I am thankful that it never got so bad that I had to get a job outside the home, but that God provided ways for me to supplement our income through watching a friend's boys. I only had the privilege of watching them for a short time, but they were wonderful and I'd watch them again in a heartbeat!
5. I am thankful for my growing children. Only one child left to potty train! We've had lots of new stages here at our house. BC started Kindergarten. RL and JS have both lost teeth. Kids have learned to swim, and oh, talk!!! It's been so fun to listen to CD come up with more and more words every day! We also finally put him in a toddler bed. LR (4) is already reading some words and writing her name. They are growing up so fast!
6. I am thankful that in His perfect timing God brought worship leading back into my husband's life. He started at the Airforce Base Chapel as the worship leader. Although this wasn't his ideal job, it sufficed to get him doing what he loves again. It was a perfect transition for what was to come.
7. I am so very thankful that God led us to Mirabeau Chapel. There were actually two jobs that we were looking at, but God clearly closed the one door and paved the way for my DH to go back to full time ministry. The road was rough and the journey long, but there was much to be learned along the way. I thank God for where he has brought my DH to today. He is clearly where he belongs.
8. I am thankful for lifelong friends. During our journey, we have had the support of close friends by our side. They have shared our pain, and walked with us through a difficult season. Many have prayed for us and I cannot express how thankful I am for this. And for their loyalty. And for their patience. And for their understanding. But mostly for their prayers.
9. I am thankful for new friends. I have made many encouraging friends since I started this blog. Some are mothers, some are grandmothers, some are just beginning their journey in marriage. I am thankful for them all. I have treasured their encouraging words and look forward to getting to know them better. I am also thankful for the friends I have already made at our new church and how they have tried to make our transition as easy as possible. Baskets, cards, and warm words of welcome have helped our family feel at home.
10. I couldn't go without giving thanks to our extended family also for the support they have been to us in the past year. Parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents...they have all stood by our side as we walked through a tough time. We couldn't have made it through this past year without their listening ears, helpful advice and generous giving. We are so lucky to have such loving family surrounding us!

I have really enjoyed blogging my thoughts this past year. It started out as a place to record what matters to this family but it has become so much more. Thanks for sharing the journey! I look forward to sharing what God brings our way in the year to come.

"We give thanks to you, O God, we give thanks, for your Name is near; men tell of your wonderful deeds." Psalm 75:1

10 Things Tuesday...TRUST!

I'm so glad it's Tuesday! This week I want to focus on TRUST in my thankful list. God is really doing a work in my life right now and I am thankful that He is teaching me how to really trust Him in everything. It has been a very repetitive theme for me so I thought I would share.

1. I am thankful that God uses His scripture to speak to me and show me the many reasons I can trust Him.

2. I am thankful that I can trust God with every area of my life.
Psalm 31:14-15a "But I trust in you, O LORD; I say, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hands;" (Home Sanctuary Scripture of the Month)

3. I am thankful that when I trust in Him He puts a song in my heart.
Psalm 28:7 "The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song."

4, 5, and 6. I am thankful that when I trust in Him He gives me hope, peace, and joy.
Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (My own scripture memory verse for Feb.1-15)

7. I am thankful that I can trust Him to direct my path.
Proverbs 3:5-6 "Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths." (Amplified)

8. I am thankful that I can trust Him to provide for our family.
Psalm 23:1 "The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want."

9. I am thankful that I can trust Him with the lives of my children.
Matthew 19:14 Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."

10. I am thankful that even when I walk through trials, I can trust Him to be by my side.
Psalm 23:4 "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me."

If you have the time, I recommend watching Beth Moore on Life today. I watched her series on Trust, and it really challenged me. You can find it in the archives here. It's called "Who Do You Trust?" Just scroll down until you find the right title.

I'll leave you with one more verse today. It's one of my favorites. Perhaps it will be my memory verse for the second half of February! : )

Isaiah 26:3-4
"You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. 4 Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal."

I Am Thankful...

I think it's about time for another 10 things Tuesday list. I haven't seen X-Box Wife this week yet, but that doesn't mean I can't choose to be thankful! :)

1. I am thankful for peace and quiet. I am sitting here in my living room listening to worship music and enjoying an empty house. This doesn't happen very often. Usually even when kids are at school, I have two extras at home with me. My DH took a trip out to Walla Walla and with him he took my two youngest children. The result is that I get two whole hours all to myself! You would think I would spend that cleaning and getting things done, but not today. I'm just taking a mini retreat, sipping my latte, and being thankful.
2. I am thankful that my DH is only gone for one day. I missed both him and the kids last night. I look forward to seeing them and getting hugs all around when they get home tonight. It's good to miss them, and it's good to be missed, but I will be thankful when they get home.
3. I am thankful that my brother in law is willing to let us use his car while he is gone over seas this year. That's what my DH is in Walla Walla to do...pick up the car. I am also thankful for my sister in law who took her one day off this week to travel there so we could pick up the car.
4. I am thankful for the new furnace that is on it's way this week. Ours has a crack in it and needs to be replaced as soon as possible. Not only did God provide the means for that, He also provided someone in our church to install it, saving us about $800.
5. I am thankful for our health. RH seems to have gotten over her Strep. Looking back, we made it through most of January without any illnesses. I pray the same for February.
6. I am thankful for extended family both on my side and my husband's side. We could not make it in this economy if it weren't for our loving family. Be it food, a little extra money, or supplies for the household, our families have really pitched in to help us during hard times. Most recently, I am thankful for my DH's Grandma, who sent a very sweet letter along with some money. Her example of how important family is has been such a blessing to me over the years.
7. I am thankful that my own grandma is recovering from her fall in a home where she is being taken care of by a skilled nurse. She hurt her knee and her ribs when she fell. She's 95 years old, lives in her own place, and amazes me at how active she still is. (Actually, she's where I get my stubborn "I want to do it all myself'" attitude from!) I am thankful that her kids were around to help take care of her when she fell.
8. I am thankful that we have the room in our home to extend the invitation for a friend at church to live here for a while. I love having the capability to offer up our home to meet his need. We have done it in the past for family and friends and this is no different. I love the chance to practice hospitality!
9. I am thankful that the sun is shining bright again today...even though they say the groundhog saw his shadow yesterday!
10. I am ever so thankful for God's Word. I am reading through the bible chronologically this year. It reads more like a story this way and I'm seeing new things that I never noticed before. I am also memorizing two verses a month and that has already had a huge effect on my thought life and attitude.

Well, I hope X-BOX Wife is doing well, my prayers are with her. I am very glad I stumbled upon her blog because she reminded me that there is always something to be thankful for. What kinds of things are you thankful for this week?

Ten Things Tuesday

It's good to see that X Box Wife is up and running again. I love participating in Ten Things Tuesday! It sounds like she has a sick little one though, so my prayers go out to her today as she heads to the doctor to find out what's wrong.

I have so many things to be thankful for that I don't even know where to begin! That is why I usually try to find a common theme. How about I keep it to all the things that I am thankful for so far today? You see, for every hard moment I have in my day, I try to think of something positive. It goes something like this...

1. I didn't get much sleep last night so I had a really hard time crawling out of bed this morning. However, I am very thankful that my 7 year old is old enough and considerate enough to get herself and her siblings something for breakfast while I wake up.
2. I didn't get to Starbucks to treat myself to a latte today like I had planned. However, I am thankful that I have my own trusty coffee pot at home with some yummy creamer to make up for it!
3. I didn't get the laundry started before I went out the door this morning because I was in a rush. However, I am thankful that I caught up on laundry yesterday, so I only have one load to do today.
4. Oops! I forgot about the baking soda I sprinkled on the carpet downstairs last night to clean up a mess. However, I am thankful that it didn't get stepped on and smashed into the carpet to make matters worse.
5. The front of the piano fell down because the wood splintered and the screw fell out. However, I am thankful that it was hanging by a thread on the other side so no one got hurt.
6. I had just gotten home from picking up my kindergartner at school and the office called to tell me my 2nd grader needs to come home sick. However, I am thankful that everyone was still in their coats, hats, shoes, and mittens so it was easy to go get her.
7. I forgot what it was that I came upstairs to do...am I losing my mind? However, I am thankful that my 2nd grader reminded me that I was going to take her temperature and give her some medicine, if needed.
8. I didn't remember to put dinner in the crock pot this morning. However, I am thankful that the exact same meal can be cooked for 4 hours on high instead of 6-8 hours on low.
9. I am out of dishwasher detergent because I didn't get any the last time I went to the store. However, I am thankful that dishes can still be washed by hand, and I do have soap for that.
10. I am feeling a bit guilty that it's 2:00pm and I haven't even finished up my morning routine yet, let alone started my afternoon routine. However, I am thankful for 10 things Tuesday and the opportunity to pause in my day and be thankful before I get back to work!

Have a great week everyone!