Worth Reading!

I just wanted to put in a good word for my new friend Lylah, over at http://lylahledner.blogspot.com/ . She is an experienced mom who's blog is "dedicated to helping women restore the dignity of the simple home by creating sanctuary." I love reading her thoughts and this week she is offering a free e-book if you visit her blog and e-mail her. Just click on "about" and her e-mail is at the bottom. I'm super excited to have found her! She's worth reading.

The Ordinary Things

Yesterday's storm has passed, as expected. I never did figure out what it was that was bothering me. I just did a lot of praying and continued with my normal routine and today I feel better. Perhaps that's all I needed...a little re-focusing so that my day to day routine involved Jesus. It's nice when I find my thoughts drifting towards Him while doing what seems to me to be "ordinary things." Meals, dishes, and laundry are all necessary parts of my day, but they don't have to weigh down my spirit if I do them in love.

As I have mentioned before, some days I don't feel like doing the ordinary. Even on my worst days though, I'm glad to look back on the day and see what was accomplished. The way I look at it, I'm not just doing these things to take care of my children. I'm also setting an example for my children and enabling them to be responsible for themselves one day. That's why it's important to involve them in my chores and give them chores of their own.

Teaching them the skills is not the hard part. They are watching my attitude as well. Sometimes that can be a scary thought. I was watching my girls play house the other day and everything was "sweetie" this and "sweetie" that. I thought it was pretty cute. (I must call them sweetie a lot.) My point is, they pick up on my moods not only by what I say, but how I say it! All the more reason to do things with a cheerful heart!

I like the way the Message puts it in Philippians 2:14 - "Do everything readily and cheerfully, no bickering-no second guessing allowed!" From now on, there will be no second guessing about how important the "ordinary" things are in life for this mom. : )

Life Storms

Storms. There are all different kinds. Some are long, and it seems like they will never end. Many are very damaging and have long-term effects even after they are gone. There are those that you can see coming from a mile away as the clouds roll in, and then there are those hit quickly and unexpectedly. That’s what today’s storm did. It began with the wind, and before we knew it, there was lightning, thunder, rain, and then a large amount of hail piling up on our lawn. It came out of nowhere! One minute it was sunny and fair, and the next it was cold and dark. What a site to see!

As menacing as our storm seemed today, it was nothing compared to the one that’s raging in my heart. I don’t know where it came from. I can’t even place my finger on why it’s there. Yesterday things were fine. I was happy. There wasn’t anyone or anything that could change that. Then I woke up this morning and before I knew it, I was in the middle of this crazy storm. Isn’t life like that sometimes? We’re going along just fine and then, BOOM! the thunder hits.

So what do you do when you find yourself caught in a storm? Well, you can run for shelter. Find comfort in friends, family, and the warmth of those around you. Talk it through with someone. Sometimes just talking can help to find the source of the storm, and that’s enough to bring hope for fairer weather. It’s the “we’re in this together” method.

In my case today, I have tried to focus on positive thoughts, uplifting music, and inspirational messages to keep my mind off of the storm. I know that it will pass eventually. I have been trying to figure out what it is that’s bothering me but maybe I don’t need to know. Sometimes it’s not the cause of the storm that matters, but what happens afterwards. Cleaning, rebuilding, healing, and moving on are all important parts of recovery after a storm hits. I know this storm will pass and I will find peace again. For me, that is reason enough to help me wait this one out.

Be Still

“Sit Still!” The words echo through my mind as I call to memory when I was a child and I used to squirm in my chair as if I had ants in my pants. As an adult I can’t even count the number of times I have said those two small words to my own children. Lately though, I have heard another voice whispering in my ear. The first word is changed, but the second remains the same. “Be still” are the words of my Heavenly Father.

Think about it for a while. Why is it so hard for children to sit still? They are always busy. They are busy learning, doing, and moving from one thing to another. As adults, that movement doesn’t slow down. We have schedules to keep, deadlines to make, and meetings to attend. It’s no wonder that many of us are tired, burned out and worn down in this crazy, fast paced day in age.

As I have been meditating on Psalm 46 this week, I have realized that it doesn’t have to be that way. Even in the middle of this crazy life, we don’t have to be crazy ourselves. Why? Because “God is our refuge and strength.” (vs 1.) The psalmist goes on to describe the earth giving way, mountains falling into the sea, and nations in uproar. Despite all of the troubles mentioned, I am comforted by verse 5. When describing a river that flows in the City of God, the psalmist says “God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.”

That is just what I need in the midst of my crazy, hectic, day to day schedule – God within me. When I call on Him, He will help me at the break of each day. With His help, no matter what comes crashing down around me, I will not fall. Once that is established in my heart, I can then “Be still.”

Psalm 46:10 "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth."

Happy Anniversary to Us!

This week we celebrated our 14th anniversary. Some people celebrate with flowers and candy, some go on elaborate over-night get-a-ways. Then there's the ever popular one...jewelry!

We've done all of those in the past, as well as a special three day mini-vacation for our 10th anniversary. This time, we went to a movie and then stopped to share a bit of uninterrupted conversation over a basket of steak fries on our way home.

It's not really how you celebrate that makes the difference. It's remembering why you're celebrating that matters. Love. It's what binds husband and wife together and makes two become one.

Love between husband and wife does not always come as easy as some might think. In 14 years of marriage we have certainly had our shares of ups and downs. We've changed jobs and moved several times. On occasion, we have been unemployed. We are also raising five beautiful children together. Life has thrown many challenges, as well as blessings our way.

Jobs, homes, and yes, even children come and go in life. There is however, one thing that will always remain, and that is the love that we have for each other. It may always be changing and growing. It looks different now than it will in 10, 15, or even 20 years. But it will always be there. It will never cease to exist, as long as we work at it. And that, is reason to celebrate.

I love you honey! Thanks for 14 wonderful years!

1 Corinthians 13:8 Love never fails.

The Journey of Motherhood

I am so thankful for all of the women in my life that are on this journey of motherhood with me. Some of them are further along than others. They have children, grandchildren, and even great grandchildren. I have friends with 1 or 2 children, and up to 8 children. We are all in various stages of our journeys, but we have one thing in common. Motherhood.

Motherhood, although extremely gratifying, can be exhausting at times. Day in and day out there are certain tasks that have to be performed over and over. Take meals for example. I plan a meal (if I'm on the ball), make a meal, serve a meal, clean up a meal. Then I do it again at lunch, and again at dinner. The next day I get up and well, you get the idea. I start all over! This is only a small part of my daily routine as a wife, mother, and homemaker.

On most days, I do these things with joy. Do I always feel like making a meal? No. Do I do it out of love to serve my family? Yes. I can't manage my household and love my family by serving them only when I FEEL like it.

What I am learning more and more about motherhood is that I need to lean on the strength of God and the women that He has brought into my life as mentors and friends. I am not alone in this. I'm not the only mother who grows weary at times. I see it all around me. In friends, family, and women at church. I notice the weary expressions on their faces and I listen to the stories that seem to say "I feel so discouraged."

When I look at my "to-do" list every day I realize that even if I get everything marked off on Monday, there will be a new list waiting for me on Tuesday. Who wouldn't feel discouraged by that? I have read countless books on homemaking, organizing, and parenting. Many of them have been helpful. I have adopted several techniques and incorporated lots of different ideas into my routine and lifestyle over the years.

No matter what though, I keep coming back to one book. God's Word. It is filled with promises of hope, strength, and rest. When I read it, I feel comforted and encouraged. It provides everything I need to keep pressing on in my journey of motherhood.

That's reason enough for me to wake up every morning and serve my family wholeheartedly. Not only that, but I will encourage those around me to do the same. I offer them the same encouraging Words that God whispers in my ear every day. Listen closely. Can you hear Him?

"I am with you my daughter...don't give up."
"There is a harvest waiting for you, so don't give up."

I still have hard days. The important thing is, I look to Him to be my strength. God has blessed me with so many women in my life that I can't help but be energized by them. Just one look around me and I know that I am not alone. And I will do my best to make sure that every mother that crosses my path in this lifetime knows that as well.

"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we don't give up." - Galatians 6:9

Birthday Fun

July is the month of birthdays in this family. We have 3 of them really close together, just in our immediate family. JS turned 6 on the 13th of this month. RL turned 7 on the 18th. Then my DH turns ??? (we'll keep that a secret for his sake!) tomorrow. Plus my DH's brother's birthday is on the 17th, and his grandmother's birthday is also the 18th. I wouldn't dream of forgetting our best friend's sweet little girl, who turned 3 on the 6th. We end the month with a grand celebration of our 14th anniversary! Yes, I would say that July is a month of celebrating for us.

With lots of birthdays comes lots of...you guessed it, cake! I already posted a picture of the "mud" we had in Walla Walla to celebrate the myriad of birthdays while we were there. We have a tradition of celebrating birthdays with our best friends together, so we had cupcakes for KK's birthday. For JS's birthday we had ice cream cake from DQ.

For RL's birthday we had a princess crown cake that was a joint effort between me and my husband. I made the cake and cut/baked the cookies, and he decorated them! It was fun to work together to make her day a special one. Who knew he could decorate cakes??? I was pretty proud of the outcome but I have to say, that was one of the sweetest cakes I have ever tasted, with all that frosting and sugar!

Then of course, with birthdays, come presents! JS was happy to receive some TransFormers so that he could finally play them with his buddy Ty.




RL, waiting here so patiently to open her gifts, got some new books, (great to read to her dad at bedtime!) amongst other fun gifts.

Yes, July is packed full of fun at our house. I think I'm all caked out for a while! Maybe we'll just stick to ice cream for DH's birthday. Or perhaps his favorite - rootbeer blends.