Tuesday, May 5, 2009

10 Things Tuesday

XBOX Wife Ten Things Tuesday

10 Things that I am thankful for today...
  1. Coupons that mean more than 50% off of what I am buying!
  2. A fun new game for my kids to play.
  3. New grass that's finally growing in the back yard.
  4. The sound of the wind blowing through the trees.
  5. Tiny fingerprints on french doors.
  6. A new client for my DH.
  7. A funny joke that my son told me.
  8. A new snow globe for an early Mother's Day present. :)
  9. A beautiful sunset.
  10. Bedtime stories and prayers.
Well, I'm off to tuck my kiddos in!
Don't forget to count your blessings and be thankful every day!
-Melissa

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Siesta Scripture Memory Verse 5.1.09

It's the beginning of another month already! With that comes another memory verse. If you are wondering what Siesta Scripture Memory is, visit the LPM Blog here. I am so excited how the Lord has been weaving scripture into my life to encourage me and help me grow this year! He is so faithful to remind us of His promises, in just the right moments. Sometimes I can hardly wait to see Him face to face! What a glorious day that will be when we are all in heaven together!

Until then, my heart is encouraged by this verse:
"Though you have not seen Him, you love Him; and even though you do not see Him now, you believe in Him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy." 1 Peter 1:8

May you find joy as you continue to love Him,
Melissa

Friday, May 1, 2009

Company Girl Coffee 5.1.09



Good morning girls! Happy May-Day! Where in the world did April go? Honestly, I'm glad May is here. It's one of my favorite months. The edge has been taken off the cold, but it's not too hot to spend sunny afternoons at the park or in the back yard. :) One of my favorite childhood memories is making May-Day baskets with a childhood friend. We'd fill them with flowers, drop them on a neighbor's doorstep, (one for each of our moms too) and run! I am going to make a basket with my own kids today.

Something has been on my mind all week that I want to share over coffee this morning. Actually, it started last week as I did my homework for Bible Study. It's been stirring in my heart and it came to head on Tuesday when I watched session 7's video. The question I have been asking myself is this: "Can I be content to just live out my life without ever being in the spotlight, and just find joy in the ordinary?"

Here's the deal. Humans crave attention. We want to be great at something and be recognized for that. I've been good at a lot of things in my time, but never really GREAT at anything. Don't get me wrong, I have talents and spiritual gifts that God has blessed me with, just as He has blessed all of His children. I value the person He has created me to be and I know who I am in Christ. I love being a mom, wife, and homemaker. Some days I just wonder if there is more potential there that God has in mind for me that perhaps I might be missing. It's all this study about destiny and providence that has gotten me to thinking. (Beth Moore studies have a way of doing that to me.)

Here are a few quotes from last week's lesson that really struck me to the core of my being.
"To live for the greatness of God is to live the great life."

"Spending ourselves for something infinitely greater still fans our parched souls with the God-given need to matter, but relieves us of the relentless pain of being the 'it' person at the center of it."

"Every one of us who embraces the glory of God as our purpose will end up doing great things precisely because we do God-things. His holy hand resting on the least act renders the ordinary extraordinary."

Did you catch that? The ordinary becomes extraordinary with the holy hand of God resting on the least of our actions in this life. That's where it hit me. Nothing that I do in this life is ordinary to Him when I am serving Him.

Let me leave you with one final quote from the video session.
"To serve God is to serve people and to serve people is to serve purpose."

There's only one thing I long to be "great" at in this lifetime, and that is loving Christ. In John 15:9-13 Christ said to his disciples "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you obey my commands you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in His love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one that this, that he lay down his life for his friends."

Dear heavenly Father, grant it to me that I may experience that kind of love!

Blessings to all of you as you grow in the love and knowledge of Christ,
Melissa

Friday, April 24, 2009

Company Girl Coffee 4.24.09



This week at Home Sanctuary we were challenged to try a new recipe. Usually I jump at the chance, but I already had my menu set for the week, groceries bought and all! So I decided to take something on my menu and try a new version of it. That's a sneaky way to get my points, but it's still new to me. The great part is that if it works out, I've just found an easier, less messy way to cook my meatballs...in the crock pot! I love my crock pot. Any meal that I can start in the morning and have very little to no fuss at night is just perfect in my book! :)

Meatball Hero Sandwiches:
Makes 4 Servings * 10 Minutes Prep Time
1 lb lean ground beef (I am using seasoned ground turkey)
1 egg
1/2 cup Italian seasoned dry bread crumbs
1 jar Ragu
4 Italian rolls (6inch) halved lengthwise
1 cup shredded mozzarella cheese (about 4oz)

1. Combine ground beef, egg and bread crumbs in medium bowl. Shape mixture into 12 meatballs.

2. Arrange meatballs in crock pot. Pour pasta sauce over meatballs.

3. Cook on LOW 8-10 hours or on HIGH 4-6 hours or until meatballs are done. Serve meatballs and sauce in rolls, topped with cheese.

Voila! No-fuss Meatball Hero Sandwiches. Yum!

Have a great weekend all! I look forward to meeting with you for coffee! :)

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Bad Hair Day

This morning I woke up feeling like this:
But then I realized that "bad hair day" doesn't have to mean bad day!
"But may the righteous be glad and rejoice before God; may they be happy and joyful!" -Psalm 68:3

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

10 Things Tuesday

XBOX Wife Ten Things Tuesday

It's Tuesday! Time for another 10 thankful list. :) This week I actually get to link up with the hostess of 10 Things Tuesday, XBOX WIFE. She's been having internet issues so when I saw her post today I was ever so happy! Without further delay, here's my list...

  1. It's been very nice here! Spring has finally arrived. We're supposed to get rain at the end of this week, but for now, I'm just thankful for the sunshine.
  2. I had a wonderful weekend with my mom, sister, and niece. We went to the park to watch my DH play softball, and let the kids play on the playground. It was a perfect day for a picnic! (Even if I did forget to bring my DH some lunch!)
  3. I am keeping on track with my food budget this month. A little planning can go a very long way!
  4. Yesterday I picked up a pair of prescription sunglasses that I thought had been lost forever. I ordered them 2 years ago (our insurance covered them after I had CD) and they said the order had been lost and they could submit the order again but I'd have to pay for them. Then I got a mystery call a little while ago saying I could come pick up my sunglasses that were paid for. Go figure! I sure am glad they found them...even if it took two years! :)
  5. I'm thankful that even though I haven't really had a lot of quiet time with Jesus lately, I can still feel Him by my side encouraging me.
  6. I'm tired today but I'm not grumpy. Actually, I'm in a rather cheerful mood. I'm thankful for the joy that God has put in my heart that goes beyond the amount of sleep I get at night!
  7. I am thankful that my laundry room light is finally fixed! The light on either end of the laundry room was working, but the one right over my washer dryer was not. Now I can treat stains without having to move to the other end of the room!
  8. I'm thankful for time that even though my house isn't perfect and I don't have the most glamorous furniture (like this couch), I am blessed with a home large enough for our needs and we don't have to sit or sleep on the floor!
  9. I'm thankful for large, open windows that let the sunshine in when I can't be outside because I have work to do inside.
  10. I am thankful that although there is work to be done this morning, I will be able to play with my kids in the sun this afternoon!

Now, I'm off to chip away at the day's chores. Blessings to all of you! May your day be full of sunshine, even if the clouds bring on the rain! :)

-Melissa

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Creating Sanctuary on a Shoestring

Hi there! Two Company Girl posts in one weekend! Yay! I already had a story in mind for coffee on Friday, so of course, I just had to get another post in about Home Sanctuary on a shoestring!

I was blessed to spend this weekend with my mom, sister, and niece. They drove over the mountains to visit after a very LONG winter of not seeing each other. When it comes to living frugally, my mom taught me just about everything I know.

When I was growing up, my parents owned a hardware store. It was there that I had my first job. They taught me the value of working hard for your money, saving it up, and spending it wisely. My mom started a savings account with me at a very young age and taught me how to keep track of the funds in my ledger. I still have that savings account today.

My first tip is to always know your balance in your checking/savings account. This may sound simple, but a lot of people don't keep track. I keep my receipts, enter my withdrawals and deposits into my computer, and then balance it both on-line and against my statements when they come. That way, I always know how much money we have in the bank. It keeps me from making "impulse buys."

That leads me to tip #2. Never buy on impulse if you can help it. When you want/need something, write it down. Consider how great of a need it really is and how much money it will cost. Think about whether or not you can fit it into your budget at the moment. Comparison shop. Watch for the best deal so that you can make an informed decision. That way you won't regret it later.

Tip #3 for living on a shoestring: Plan a budget, and follow it. Ours is the simplest of budgets. I started by writing down all our bills and the days that they are due. Then I added food, household items, personal, (clothes, haircuts, etc.) and entertainment. Our budget for entertainment may be small, but it's important to include it or you're spending money that's not there. I re-evaluate our personal budget twice a year. This year, we had to add a school category for supplies, snacks, backpacks, etc. because three of our children are now in school. Savings is a separate category for us and we put money aside when we can. It is our goal to some day be to the point where we can put something aside every month, however small it may be.

Tip #4, but actually the most important one in our household is that we faithfully tithe 10% off the top of my husband's paycheck. We firmly believe that God honors that, and 100 percent of what we own is His anyway. Over the years, He has always provided for us. Time and again He has met our needs, and we gladly give back to Him in return.

Now that I've shared a little about my budget and money management, let me briefly give you a few of my practical tips for saving money.
  • Clip coupons. From what I've been reading, a lot of you already do. Great! I recently became a fan of printing coupons from my computer. If you don't get the paper, then that's a great way to still get savings.
  • Combine coupons with promotions. Find out what weekly promotions your local grocery store is running. I recently saved 50% on my weekly shopping trip because I planned out my strategy beforehand.
  • Keep a running list of what you need, take it with you to the store, and STICK TO IT.
  • Want to take that one step farther? Meal plan. Start with one week (I plan six days at a time and then one day of left-overs). It's not hard to come up with six meals. Make a grocery list of what you need for that week's meals and attach it to your menu. File it and create a "menu planner" of your own.
  • Stock pile when items are on sale if you have extra money in your budget to do so. I have a pantry full of staple foods that I use all the time. Then if we are really strapped one week (tighten up the shoestring!), I can get creative with what we have in our pantry. That doesn't just go for food. You can stockpile soap, shampoo, toothpaste, cleaning solutions, etc. Even if you think you don't have room, there are creative ways to store extras. (But that's a different post!)
  • I mentioned an entertainment budget. To be honest, most of the time our budget in that area is non-existent. We have to be pretty creative. We LOVE board games. So when we do have a little extra, we tend to spend it on a game that we can play over and over again. When the weather is nice, we get outdoors as much as possible. Yesterday we went to the park to watch the kids' dad play softball. We brought a picnic lunch and played on the playground there. It was an incredibly fun time and we spent no money at all.
  • When it comes to clothing, I don't buy unless it's on sale. We also accept hand-me-downs. If I have something that doesn't work for me anymore but is still in good shape, I offer it up to a friend. I've heard of friends doing entire wardrobe exchanges when they get desperate!

Well, I think I've taken enough of your time! I could talk about this stuff all day long. I also love reading your tips. Sorry this post came late in the weekend. I was busy "bargain shopping" with my mom and sister! :)

Have a great week everyone! I look forward to coffee next week.

-Melissa